What if we shifted from seeing children with problem behaviors as "attention seeking" and instead saw them as "connection seeking"? Imagine what kind of transformation would take place in our classrooms, schools, and homes. Learn more on this topic and tips for working with children impacted by domestic violence in our latest podcast featuring Kelly Frazier-Wawire: bit.ly/2N18mrD As always, we wish you well! #iHeartCD | Conscious Discipline®
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As we shift from seeing children as "attention-seeking" to "connection-seeking," you may be wondering, "How do I do this in my classroom?" Here are a few ideas from Dr. Becky Bailey on how you can implement these "connection breaks" in a predictable and consistent way to help soothe that need for your connection-seeking child. ❤️ Have you tried a "connection schedule" for a child like this before? If so, share below! This clip with Dr. Becky Bailey comes from our e-course "Responding to Anger &
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As we shift from seeing children as "attention-seeking" to "connection-seeking," you may be wondering, "How do I do this in my classroom?" Here are a few ideas from Dr. Becky Bailey on how you can implement these "connection breaks" in a predictable and consistent way to help soothe that need for your connection-seeking child. ❤️ Have you tried a "connection schedule" for a child like this before? If so, share below! This clip with Dr. Becky Bailey comes from our e-course "Responding to Anger &
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Your kids ain't seeking attention. They are seeking connection. Read that again.................................................................... #earlychildhooddevelopment #connectingwithkids #attentionseeking #attentionseekingbehaviour | The Cycle Breaker Mom
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🌟 Attention-Seeking is Really Connection-Seeking 🌟 Ever feel like your child is always trying to get your attention? The truth is, what we often label as "attention-seeking" is really just a cry for connection. 💛 Children may whinge, act out, or behave disruptively not just for attention, but because they’re craving a deeper sense of security, love, and belonging. They need to feel seen and know that you’re truly present with them. Unfortunately, dismissing attention-seeking behaviour often m
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🌟 Attention-Seeking is Really Connection-Seeking 🌟 Ever feel like your child is always trying to get your attention? The truth is, what we often label as "attention-seeking" is really just a cry for connection. 💛 Children may whinge, act out, or behave disruptively not just for attention, but because they’re craving a deeper sense of security, love, and belonging. They need to feel seen and know that you’re truly present with them. Unfortunately, dismissing attention-seeking behaviour often m
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Because here’s the thing: attention-seeking IS connection-seeking. His nervous system is literally telling you what it needs. When we pathologize that need and withhold connection, we’re teaching him that his distress doesn’t matter. So yeah - let’s give him the attention. Let’s co-regulate. That’s not “giving in,” that’s meeting a developmental need.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ 💕❤️💕 | Dr. Chelsey Parenting
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Because here’s the thing: attention-seeking IS connection-seeking. His nervous system is literally telling you what it needs. When we pathologize that need and withhold connection, we’re teaching him that his distress doesn’t matter. So yeah - let’s give him the attention. Let’s co-regulate. That’s not “giving in,” that’s meeting a developmental need.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ 💕❤️💕 | Dr. Chelsey Parenting
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